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Dear Abby: Should I spill beans about man’s real dad?

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

Dear Abby: Forty years ago, a neighborhood boy fathered a child with a neighborhood girl. “Billy” was 17 at the time, and “Becky” was 14 or 15. Both were friends of mine. They were not a steady couple. She liked him, but I feel he used her. I heard that she married an older gentleman who accepted the baby, “Matt,” as his own.Ten years ago, I found Matt on Facebook. I told him I knew his mother, and he shared her contact information with me. When I called Becky, we enjoyed talking about old times, and I let her know that Billy had passed away. She informed me that her husband had also passed away.I was surprised when she told me she never told Matt who his biological father was. He was raised believing his biological father was Becky’s husband. I have photographs of Billy, and Matt has an aunt he is unaware of. As tempted as I am to inform him who his father was, I know that is not the right thing to do.We don’t communicate regularly, b...

Police pursue carjacking suspect in Southern California

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

Police pursued a carjacking suspect across multiple counties and freeways in Southern California on Thursday night.The male suspect was believed to be armed and driving a stolen red pickup truck, according to California Highway Patrol. The pursuit began around 8 p.m. with six patrol units from Fontana police chasing the suspect. The pursuit traveled on the westbound 10 freeway as they passed through downtown L.A. The driver merged onto the northbound 101 toward the San Fernando Valley, later to the northbound 405 Freeway and then to the 5 northbound.Fontana police K-9 tackling the suspect after he quickly turned his head toward officers while being arrested following a pursuit on Dec. 7, 2023. (KTLA)A carjacking suspect was arrested after a pursuit spanning multiple counties and freeways across Southern California on Dec. 7, 2023. (KTLA)Officers tackling the suspect after he quickly turned his head toward officers while being arrested following a pursuit on Dec. 7, 2023. (KTLA)A car...

City of San Diego moves forward with plan for De Anza Cove

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- The San Diego City Planning Commission on Thursday unanimously approved a plan to revamp the De Anza Cove.Called the De Anza Natural amendment to the Mission Bay Park master plan, it aims to enhance and revitalize the northeast corner of Mission Bay Park, transforming most of it into a protected wetlands area.The area is where nearly 200 abandoned, dilapidated mobile homes sat for years and were demolished earlier this year.The De Anza Natural plan looks to protect marsh areas and wetland habitat, while also including enhancements to existing recreation and parkland facilities.Some environmental groups, including the ReWild Coalition, argued the plan doesn’t do enough for wetland expansion.“We see the multiple benefits at maximum wetlands restoration will provide as a unique recreational asset," said a coalition member during the commission's meeting. Beware of San Diego ‘jury duty’ scammers Those supporting the recreational use also fought for a change to the amendme...

UNLV gunman was unemployed professor who had 150 rounds of ammunition and a target list, police say

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

LAS VEGAS (AP) — A 67-year-old college professor who was denied jobs at various Nevada colleges and universities stuffed loaded handgun magazines into his waistband before walking into a University of Nevada, Las Vegas campus building and killing three faculty members, police said.After police killed him in a shootout, Anthony Polito was found to be carrying nine magazines for a 9mm handgun he’d legally purchased last year and also a list of targets at the school — although none of those shot were on that list, police said Thursday.He was killed in a shootout with police about 10 minutes after the first reports of shots fired in Beam Hall, a business school building.Police still had no motive for Wednesday’s attack, which also left a 38-year-old visiting professor in life-threatening condition at a hospital.The university was to remain closed Friday but was tentatively scheduled to reopen next week for finals. Polito arrived at UNLV at 11:28 a.m., about 15 minutes before the s...

Houston has a population that’s young. Its next mayor, set to be elected in a runoff, won’t be

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

HOUSTON (AP) — A mayoral runoff Saturday between state Sen. John Whitmire, 74, and U.S. Rep. Sheila Jackson Lee, 73, has the fourth-largest city in the U.S. on the verge of picking a new leader who cuts against Houston’s demographic trends. Census figures show Houston is becoming younger, with a median age of around 35 and 25% of the population below 18.Although other City Halls have not exactly been swept up in a youth movement — New York Mayor Eric Adams is 63 and Los Angeles Mayor Karen Bass is 70 — the choices in Houston have frustrated some of voters in the Democratic stronghold, particularly younger ones, at a time when the party is searching for new political stars in Texas who might be able to end 30 years of GOP dominance statewide. “I think the main issue is identifying with the politician. A lot of young people can’t,” said Julian Meza, a 19-year-old history student at Houston Community College who plans to cast a ballot. He added, “I don’t really want to vote for t...

Indonesia’s youth clean up trash from waterways, but more permanent solutions are still elusive

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

BOGOR, Indonesia (AP) — At a lake in the West Javan city of Bogor, children and teenagers paddle toward piles of floating trash, pick it up and store it in their kayaks, before passing it to friends sorting it onshore.The group of around 20 youngsters started off as a team of one, a decade ago, when Giri Marhara decided to start cleaning up the lake. He was just 16 years old at the time, and already had a penchant for wanting to clean up his environment — from his classroom to his neighborhood. Young people like Marhara have been at the forefront of environmental and climate change movements in recent years: initiatives like school strikes for climate action, protests at United Nations climate talks and around the world, and local clean ups have often been youth-led. When it comes to waste picking, experts say it’s a stop-gap solution, and the larger problem of creating too much waste needs to be addressed. But the relatively small-scale efforts in Indonesia have resonated wit...

Federal judge poised to prohibit separating migrant families at US border for 8 years

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

SAN DIEGO (AP) — A federal judge was poised Friday to prohibit separation of families at the border for purposes of deterring immigration for eight years, preemptively blocking resumption of a lightning-rod, Trump-era policy that the former president hasn’t ruled out if voters return him to the White House next year.U.S. District Judge Dana Sabraw tentatively approved a court settlement in October between the Justice Department and families represented by the American Civil Liberties Union. The ACLU says no one formally objected, clearing the way to end the case nearly seven years after it was filed.Sabraw, who was appointed by President George W. Bush, ordered an end to separations in June 2018, six days after then-President Donald Trump halted them on his own amid intense international backlash. The judge also ordered that the government reunite children with their parents within 30 days, setting off a mad scramble because government databases weren’t linked. Children ...

What’s streaming now: Nicki Minaj’s birthday album, Julia Roberts is in trouble and Monk returns

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

A Nicki Minaj album dropping on her birthday and the return of Tony Shalhoub’s quirky private investigator Adrian Monk with one final case are some of the new television, movies, music and games headed to a device near you.Also among the streaming offerings worth your time as selected by The Associated Press’ entertainment journalists are Julia Roberts starring in the psychological thriller “Leave the World Behind” and the new Britbox miniseries “Archie,” telling the story of how Cary Grant went from humble beginnings to become one of Hollywood’s most dashing leading men.NEW MOVIES TO STREAM— “Mr. Robot” creator Sam Esmail directs Julia Roberts in the new psychological thriller he adapted from Rumaan Alam’s novel for Netflix. In “Leave the World Behind,” An ad executive (Roberts), her college professor husband (Ethan Hawke) and kids (Charlie Evans and Farrah Mackenzie) are spending the weekend in a luxurious rental on Long Island. Late one night two strangers (Mahershala Ali a...

Stock market today: Asian shares are mostly higher ahead of a key US jobs report

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

HONG KONG (AP) — Asian shares were mostly higher on Friday ahead of a U.S. government jobs report, after Wall Street rose Thursday to snap its first three-day losing streak since Halloween.U.S. futures were lower and oil prices gained more than $1. In Tokyo, the Nikkei 225 index shed 1.8% to 32,254.82, as investors speculated that the Bank of Japan may end its negative interest rate policy.Before meeting Thursday with Prime Minister Fumio Kishida, BOJ Gov. Kazuo Ueda told parliament the central bank would face an “even more challenging” situation at the year’s end and in early 2024. On Friday, the U.S. dollar fell to 143.79 Japanese yen from 144.12 yen. It was trading above 150 yen until mid-November. Updated data released on Friday showed Japan’s economy shrank by 2.9% year-on-year in the July-September quarter, worse than estimated earlier. Hong Kong’s Hang Seng index rose 0.3% to 16,394.90 and the Shanghai Composite index was up 0.4% at 2,977.83. The Kospi in Seoul gained 1...

High-profile attacks on Derek Chauvin and Larry Nassar put spotlight on violence in federal prisons

Published Thu, 20 Feb 2025 20:40:42 GMT

Derek Chauvin was stabbed nearly two dozen times in the law library at a federal prison in Arizona. Larry Nassar was knifed repeatedly in his cell at a federal penitentiary in Florida.The assaults of two notorious, high-profile federal prisoners by fellow inmates in recent months have renewed concerns about whether the chronically understaffed, crisis-plagued federal Bureau of Prisons is capable of keeping people in its custody safe.In the shadow of gangster James “Whitey” Bulger’s 2018 beating death at a West Virginia federal penitentiary and financier Jeffrey Epstein’s 2019 suicide at a Manhattan federal jail while awaiting trial on sex trafficking charges, the Bureau of Prisons is again under scrutiny for failing to protect high-profile prisoners from harm.Chauvin, 47, the former Minneapolis police officer convicted of murdering George Floyd in 2020, was hospitalized for a week after he was assaulted Nov. 24 at a medium-security federal prison in Tucson, Arizona — the same comple...